What Happened?

The other night I was having a nice conversation on the phone with this guy that I used to like. While talking to him I started to reminisce about the old fun times we used to have. When I think back to the first day we met, he left me with the best first impression...he made me laugh! We used to go out on dates all the time, we laughed, I met important family members, he went to my graduation, met some of my closest family members and we had a crazy connection. It's like we already knew each other but we could never figure out how! Long story short...after all those good moments and "relationship" type events we never became a couple. I'm still trying to figure out what happened...

What's Your Name?

Why is it so hard for me to approach a complete stranger that I think is very attractive?! I'm still trying to figure this out at the age of 23. What do I say to him? How will he respond? Will he think I'm attractive? All these questions run through by mind when I'm "thinking" about approaching a guy! And then in the background my stomach is doing back flips which is causing more terror...lol Then I start to think if a guy wants to talk to me he'll approach me himself...WRONG! I've asked a guy for his number ONE time in my life BUT he wasn't a complete stranger, we were class mates...that's another post right there (but I did get the number) lol. So I'm going to start this new adventure! Approaching Guys! What do you guys think?

Random Thought

It's 1:41 a.m. again lol just another late night for me and of course I'm thinking again....here is my random thought: He has the softest lips that my lips have ever touched...who is he you may ask? I'll never tell *wink*

The Single Life...

Today I was just thinking to myself, when was the last time I had a boyfriend? The answer to that question is Feb. 2008. It's been a year and 4 months since I had a boyfriend. (I do love the show Living Single...TV ONE still shows it) I actually don't have a problem with being single because I can do what I want, it's cheaper to be single lol, and I don't have to deal with all that baggage that comes with SOME relationships! The key to being single and HAPPY is to actually know how to have fun without it having to be with a guy!! You have got to realize that you don't need a man to validate you and show you a good time! I love to have fun with my best friends and my family because they keep me grounded!! :) I must say I have learned so much from all these different types of guys this past year. I could have had a boyfriend right now BUT that's a long story...lol that would have to be another post...maybe a cool guy will come into my life and I won't be Living Single...time will tell...I'm not setting myself up to be disappointed though...